Hi there and welcome to this week’s blog post which is all about Aspergers and OCD. I am a day early with the article this week as I’m taking my 2 year old daughter camping tomorrow, and they don’t seem to have internet access in fields yet!

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My son has Aspergers and OCD and he will have hand tremors that he is not aware of. I am trying a more holistic approach but this is not covered by insurance. I wish I knew which ones were beneficial and which ones are not beneficial.

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Traditional treatment for obsessive-compulsive disorder involves a combination of medication and behavioral therapy techniques. The traditional medicines used in this process are SSRI’s, or serotonin selective reuptake inhibitors.

Many parents do not want to treat their children suffering from OCD with these traditional methods, but turn to holistic methods of treatment. Because holistic therapies are designed to treat the whole person, not just the symptoms of a disease or disorder, holistic approaches appeal to many people. Holistic therapies can be added to traditional medical approaches, or can be tried by themselves.

Holistic practices often take into consideration lifestyle factors and address physical aspects of treatment, nutritional aspects, environmental, and social and spiritual elements. In seeking alternative treatments, take into consideration your beliefs and practices.

Holistic therapies for OCD are designed to relieve mental anguish. Many people find yoga and meditation to be effective in calming the mind and the body and strengthening the connection between the two. Aromatherapy can help a person reach a more peaceful and harmonious place. Hypnotherapy and acupuncture have also been found to be successful in treating various disorders. Behavioral therapies are often effective in conjunction with some of these alternative treatments.

In her book, “Freeing Your Child from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder,” Tamar E. Chansky has created a step-by-step program designed to help parents work with children to free them from the cycle of OCD. This program was created with the goal of helping the child take back control of his life using these techniques. The techniques are designed to work with children who are either on or off medication. This method can be very effective in helping a child break free of this debilitating disorder.

It is difficult to say which holistic methods will work best with your child. Speak with your child’s physician and gain his help in creating a treatment plan for you child. Also solicit advice from trusted holistic practitioners who can suggest a holistic course of treatment.

Thanks and have a great week,

Dave Angel

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Fears of suicide for the child with Asperger’s

Children who have Asperger’s Syndrome are more susceptible to mental health issues (including thoughts of suicide) than the general population, especially during adolescence. Because of their difficulty with decoding social cues and information and their problems translating the world in a way they can understand, children with Asperger’s tend to feel isolated and alone. These feelings can be exacerbated by …

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What techniques should I be teaching my son with Aspergers to help him maintain his self-esteem throughout his adult years?

Helping your son develop his sense of self esteem throughout his developing years will give him a very strong foundation on which to create his adult self image. Because you have nurtured and supported him throughout his childhood, your son will be entering adulthood with a healthy sense of self-esteem. Establishing yourself as an adult can be a difficult time for any person. Making the transition from student to a functioning adult with a job and responsibilities can be challenging. Encourage your son to …

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My son is a full time college student and doing well with that. But he has an obsession with smoking cigarettes and cannabis — what should I do?

Celebrate the fact that your son is in college full time and doing well! That is a great accomplishment and one that you are surely proud of. Take this to mean that you have helped your son become independent and successful in his pursuits. The challenge for any parent, not just the parent of a child with Asperger’s is how to …

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Hi there and welcome  to this week’s Aspergers blog.

Thanks so much to those of you who have provided questions in the last 24 hours for me to plan my new Aspergers ebooks around.

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Question

How do I get my husband and in-laws to acknowledge the diagnosis and help care for the child?

Answer

Sometimes Asperger’s Syndrome is hard to see if you do not live with it every day.  And sometimes people are simply in denial.  Either way, the truth must come out.  Acknowledging the presence of Asperger’s Syndrome will lead to the best possible support and treatment available for the child.  Family support is practically necessary.  Yes, you can survive handling everything on your own.  However, life will be much more pleasant for the whole family when everyone is working together to care for the child.

Some people will choose to stand on the outside; you cannot do much about that.  Nevertheless, you can equip them with facts and information so they can make a choice regarding the position they plan to take.  Here are some ideas.

*    Perhaps your family needs to hear the truth from a professional.  Official paperwork containing your child’s diagnosis is available from your physician, neurologist, and/or psychologist.  You can request copies of any Early Intervention assessments, private therapy evaluations, and school system evaluations.  Explain to the family that these people are professionals who see Asperger’s Syndrome every day.  You might also mention that the assessments and evaluations rely on much more than your input, taking the attention off any possibility that you are ‘making this up’.

*    Most of your child’s therapists will offer parent training sessions regularly.  These sessions allow you to ask questions about your child’s programs and his progress, while also educating you on his new goals and coaching you on how to meet these goals.  Invite your family members to attend the parent training.  They can ask questions that will help them understand your child’s Asperger’s.

*    Contact your local Autism support groups.  Without family support, it is dire that you find encouragement elsewhere.  Tell your family about community events or group meetings so they have a chance to be informed and involved.

*    Network with other families living with Asperger‘s.  Listening to the stories of families who are ahead of you in the journey can give you and your family insight into the condition.

*    Find books, videos, and other media sources that you can share with your family members. “Voices From the Spectrum: Parents, Grandparents, Siblings, People with Autism, and Professionals Share Their Wisdom” by Cindy N. Ariel and Robert A Naseef is a great example of one such resource.  This is a book of powerful essays written by family members and people on the Autism spectrum about their life experiences.

Find the support you need to help yourself and your child and try not to worry about your family.  Encourage their participation always, but concentrate on your child’s needs, the significant issue at hand.

Have a great week,

Dave Angel

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Making Your Kitchen Gluten & Casein-Free in Seven Easy Steps

As you make your transition to your new gluten and casein-free lifestyle, one of your first jobs will be to make significant changes in your kitchen. Of course, you can predict the importance of having the right ingredients, but let’s take a step back even further than that … To read the full article go to: -

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Aspergers and Depression by Matthew Readman

I just came back from my yearly physical.  The Doctor informed my mom and I, that I was just entering the first part of puberty.  Puberty I yelled but I’m only 10.  I don’t turn 11 until later this year.  The Doctor stated that nowadays kids begin puberty early and this is normal.  I asked the Doctor does this mean I’m going to get weirder. The Doctor laughed and stated …

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8 year old with Aspergers tells jokes

This video features an 8 year old boy called Hayden from Hot Springs National Park, Arkansas; who has a diagnosis of Aspergers.He is filmed at home by his dad telling jokes as he wants to be a comedian one day.The video quality is excellent and Hayden’s jokes are good too.He shows some “out takes” at the end, including a joke about “undercoat” that he really had to persevere with to get right.He is interviewed at the end which is really interesting and he shares both his dreams and his frustrations. Running Time 3 Minutes 49 Seconds …

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Hi there and welcome to this weeks blog post.

A big thanks to everyone who signed up as new members at www.ParentingAspergersCommunity.com this week and I hope you’re enjoying the materials that I’ve provided for you.

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Question

How can I get help in obtaining services that are supposedly out there and available?  My son’s ISSP (IEP) looks fantastic on paper, but in reality, most of the services are not obtainable due to extremely long wait lists or shortage of workers to completely fill the positions.

Answer

Developing a relationship with your son’s school and creating an acceptable IEP, or Individual Education Plan, is very important.  “How Well Does Your IEP Measure Up?” by Diane Twachtman-Cullen and Jennifer Twachtman-Reilly is a book that can help you grow to be a valuable member of your son’s IEP team, giving you insight into the IEP process.  You’ll learn about often-neglected areas that should be addressed during the IEP meeting.

Your son’s school has obviously been cooperative, working with you and acknowledging his disabilities.  However, without follow-through, all you have is a stack of papers. By law, your son is entitled to FAPE or a free, appropriate public education due to his diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome.  His IEP is a legal document.  Your son’s school is legally responsible to uphold the contents of his IEP.  There are procedures in place to protect all parties involved in the education plan.  However, someone has to initiate these procedures.

At the time of your son’s IEP meeting, his IEP team leader should have reviewed your state’s laws and your rights as a parent of a child with special needs.  You should have been given a copy of your state’s FAPE procedures and parent’s rights handbook.  Now is the time to review this handbook and determine your first step.

You must initiate a legal procedure called due process.  Once you file due process, you will have the opportunity to show proof that the school system is not fulfilling your son’s services as set in his IEP.  Your parent handbook will outline the steps you must take to begin due process in your state.  You, as the parent, are responsible for holding the school system accountable.

Preserving your relationship with your son’s school is very important.  Even if you file for due process, your son will remain in their care until the process is resolved.  You will want to be comfortable with this arrangement.  Remember to maintain neutral communication.  While this is a personal matter in your life, this is not a personal attack.  Moreover, it doesn’t have to become one.

Contact your state’s special education advocacy support group.  This group is in place to support the families of special needs kids by offering information and advocacy training services at no charge.  This group can guide you through the legal process of receiving FAPE for your son.

Have a great week,

Dave Angel

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My child has a dual diagnosis of Aspergers and Downs Syndrome — can you tell me what similarities there are and give me some helpful hints to help him better at school and home.

Asperger’s Syndrome and Downs Syndrome are two separate entities that do not share many similarities. Downs Syndrome is caused by the presence of an additional chromosome in a fetus. It can cause learning disabilities. Downs Syndrome has many special distinguishing physical characteristics, such as a small head, a small mouth, and upward slanting eyes. People with Downs Syndrome typically have trouble with physical coordination and are likely to suffer gastrointestinal problems as well as heart problems. Children with Asperger’s Syndrome suffer from … To read the full article go to: -

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We have one main concern with our child with Aspergers. Eye contact is very important to me and the people around me. And as I have read before, eye contact is something that is hard for a child with aspergers to do. We cannot get my son to look anyone in the eyes. If he does then it is only for a split second before he looks away again. sometimes he will say he is looking at us but his eyes are diverted elsewhere. Is there an exercise we can do with him to help get his attention on our eyes better?

It can be very difficult for children with Asperger’s to engage in eye contact with people they are speaking to. Many people are uncomfortable talking with someone who can’t look them in the eye. There are several things you can work on with your son concerning eye contact … To read the full article go to: -

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Could you please send me a list of calming music to help 12 year old boy with Aspergers to sleep? And can you suggest other techniques too?

During the course of the day, there are several things you can do to help your son get sleepy at bedtime. First of all, monitor his diet. Try to avoid as much sugar as you possibly can, as well as caffeine. He should have no soda or sugary snacks after lunchtime, if he must have them then. Sugar and caffeine can cause the body to be alert at bedtime. Try to encourage your son to …

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Hi there and welcome to this weeks’ Aspergers blog which has a definite education theme this week …

First up let me remind you that you can get a free copy of my latest ebook entitled “Back To School” which covers all sorts of questions that you may have about your child’s education …

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Question

Can you offer tips for completing assignments?

Answer

Children with Asperger’s Syndrome have the same motivational needs as other kids.  Sometimes less and other times, a lot more motivation is needed to accomplish the same assignment.  However, Children with Asperger’s will always have the need for a little extra help due to the weaknesses created by the syndrome. 

Because Asperger’s affects functional skills in socialization and communication, teachers and parents will need to get creative in order to find ways to help these kids succeed.  Here are a few tips to help with school assignments.

* Children with Asperger’s crave order, structure and routine.  These desires can be utilized to help with assignment completion.  Classroom time for the child with Asperger’s must be an organized and structured environment.   Consistent structure will provide comfort, allowing the child to make progress on his assignments.

* Use visual schedules for children with Asperger’s Syndrome.  They need a balanced schedule that will alternate core subjects with chances to de-stress, usually with structured down time.  For example, the student may be scheduled for an hour of math, thirty minutes for lunch, and then an hour of music.  Assuming that music is a class he thoroughly enjoys, that hour would be his time to de-stress. 

* Allowing further breakdown of assignments into mini-assignments will also help ensure successful completion. This breakdown will appeal to the child’s sense of order as he sees each step is simply written and manageable.

* The breakdown of assignments into steps leads to another suggestion.  Additional time is useful when assigning work to a student with Asperger’s. Children with Asperger’s may find additional time helpful to complete their assignments.  Meeting a deadline on an assignment can create stress that causes the child to become completely overwhelmed, wiping out any chance of completing the assignment.

* Teachers of children with Asperger’s should also keep in mind the need to use straightforward instructions stated simply and clearly.  Language is difficult for kids with Asperger’s Syndrome.  Sarcasm and slang go right over their heads.  Remember that they need to know what, when, and how.  Basic instruction goes a long way.

Finally, praise the student for the work that is completed.  Praise from his teacher will motivate the child with Asperger’s and the typical child alike.  Teachers should always praise their students if possible.  Children with Asperger’s may have weaknesses to battle, but praise is a weapon that can be used successfully in the classroom.

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Dave Angel

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EEG therapy and Asperger’s

EEG therapy is also known as EEG Biofeedback, Neurotraining and Neurotherapy. This treatment is essentially a way to exercise the brain and to strengthen it. According to Autism Home, EEG therapy also calms the brain and improves its stability. Neurofeedback uses computerized technology to …

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Biomedical therapies and Asperger’s

While there are many conventional medical treatments for symptoms related to Asperger’s Syndrome, there are also alternative biomedical treatments that many people turn to in order to try to help alleviate some of the most common symptoms. While many biomedical therapies are possible for Asperger’s symptoms, there are some that are most common. Many people begin a more holistic treatment for Asperger’s symptoms by beginning a …

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How can I find treatment options for older children with ASD, that may actually help and that won’t leave a parent financially strapped

As children with Asperger’s age, treatment options become more limited. As your child finishes high school or college, you’ll want to be looking for living situations for your older child. Many young adults with Asperger’s function well in society. They are able to hold jobs, but will continue to need …

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Hi there I am sure many of you have been reading the latest news (probably with some horror) as to what is happening with Gary McKinnon who stands accused of being a hacker by the US military (although Gary himself maintains he was looking for information on UFO’s)

I will outline more below for those who don’t know much about this case involving a young man with Aspergers from the UK. But the point of this article is to try and add a little more awareness and help Gary if at all possible.

So there are three things that I would ask you to do when you’ve read this article ..

1. Click the blue link at the bottom of this article that says “Bookmark It” and then use one of the little social bookmarking buttons (such as Yahoo, FaceBook etc.) to bookmark this article. This means that the article will be seen by more people who in turn can help to raise awareness.

2. Write a quick message of support for Gary in the comments section on the blog.

3. Go to the website http://freegary.org.uk/ and write a message of support for Gary.

All these three things shouldn’t take more than a minute so please try to help if you can.

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In 2001 and 2002, Gary Mckinnon made a name for himself by hacking into the U.S. military computer system and wrecking havoc.  The incidents caused the military and NASA computer systems to fail periodically and led to a reported $700,000.00 repair bill.  The timing of these incidents could not have been more perilous since the events of 9/11 revealed the country’s vulnerability in regards to terrorist threats.

For the past four years, Gary’s family and legal team have been fighting to keep him from being extradited from the United Kingdom, where he lives, to the United States.  Gary has openly admitted that he hacked into these computer systems, but without terrorist or malicious intentions.  He was simply searching for information on extraterrestrial life, an intense personal interest.  This is not an attempt to avoid the issue, but a plea for his case to be heard in his home country for medical reasons.

Gary Mckinnon has Asperger’s Syndrome.  Asperger’s Syndrome is an Autism Spectrum Disorder.  People with Asperger’s Syndrome may exhibit the following symptoms or characteristics in any combination and in differing degrees:

*    Inability to pick up on social cues, or lack of social skills:  trouble reading body language, starting and maintaining conversation.

*    Struggles with changes in routines.  Needs routine and order to function.

*    Engages in repetitive movements and behaviors.

*    Appears to lack empathy.  Very blunt and literal, regardless of how he affects others.

*    Uses formal speech.  Often called “professor speech”, naturally uses proper wording over slang.

*    Avoids eye contact and exhibits unusual facial expressions or postures.

*    Has obsessive interests.  It is common to be preoccupied and extremely knowledgeable about one special interest.

*    Struggles with anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive behaviors, and/or self-isolation.

*    Talks a lot, especially about the obsessive interest. It is common for him to have one-sided conversations or to think aloud.

*    Shows signs of delayed motor development. He may be late in learning to ride a bike or play ball. His walk may appear awkward or clumsy.  Handwriting is often a problem with heavy pressure and uneven spacing.

*    Has issues with the sensory system.  Often becomes overwhelmed by noises, lights, tastes or touch.   Can be hypersensitive or hyposensitive, or a combination within the senses.

Parents of children with Asperger’s Syndrome in the United States and the United Kingdom are cringing as they watch this case unfold.  Having struggled through bouts of isolation and depression, many of these parents can easily see their own children in a similar situation.  Gary’s actions are classic behavior for a person with Asperger’s Syndrome.  His medical needs should be researched and noted as the real reason behind the events of 2001, and the possibilities for increased medical peril due to his condition should be seriously considered during his legal contest.

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to …

1. Click the blue link at the bottom of this article that says “Bookmark It” and then use one of the little social bookmarking buttons (such as Yahoo, FaceBook etc.) to bookmark this article. This means that the article will be seen by more people who in turn can help to raise awareness.

2. Write a quick message for Gary in the comments section on the blog.

3. Go to the website http://freegary.org.uk/ and write a message of support for Gary.

Dave Angel

Hi and welcome to this week’s Aspergers article …

Just as a quick update I am still working on the “Back To School” ebook which should be completed in the next 2-3 weeks.

I also hope to put out an extra article later this week about Gary McKinnon – the young man with Aspergers who is due to be extradicted to the USA from the UK on some very serious hacking charges.

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Tips on teaching black-and-white kids labels for different emotions would be invaluable. With our nine-year-old, everyone is either happy, sad, frustrated or mad. His difficulty labeling emotions compounds problems because by not being able to adequately express what he’s feeling and be understood. This frustration usually ends with a day full of sitting on the couch with his head down, not talking to anyone because he’s so upset. How can I help him better express himself?

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It can be very difficult for some children with Asperger’s Syndrome to understand their own emotions. They have a very hard time reading the emotions of others as well. This can be a very frustrating place for a child to be and helping him to learn how to identify these emotions can be very beneficial for your child.

Understand that it will be difficult for your child to learn how to identify emotions. He’ll first need to have a frame of reference. In her book, “What’s That Look on Your Face? All About Faces and Feelings,” Catherine S. Snodgrass has created a set of pictures of exaggerated facial expressions. These pictures are accompanied by poems that further reinforce the emotion shown in the face to help reinforce the connection in the child’s mind. This is a great way to begin to teach your child how to read and identify emotions.

You can also create activities for you and your child to participate in, depending on the age of your child and his desire to participate. You can photograph yourself and your child making faces that portray different emotions. You can have pictures of happy faces, sad faces, frustrated faces, and mad faces – all sorts of faces. Take a picture of you and take a picture of your child making the same face. You can take those photographs and turn them into flash cards so your child can practice identifying emotions.

Once he has a language and a frame of reference, then you can begin to help your child learn to identify how he is feeling. This can be a time consuming process, but a very important process. When you see your son is happy, have him stop what he’s doing and talk about what it feels like to be happy. He will begin to equate the feeling he’s having with the word. You can do this with many emotions, such as anger and frustration. Once your son begins to connect words with the emotions he is having, he’ll be able to correctly identify the emotions. This will help greatly when you are trying to help him modify some of his behaviors that may surround some of his emotions, especially around anger and frustration issues.

Be patient with your son and try to understand how frustrating and confusing this can be for him. If he begins to understand that you are trying to help him understand this confusing issue, he will be better able to open up to you.

Have a great week,

Dave Angel

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When and how to explain Asperger’s to him?

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Can you give me information of natural products or holistic medicine?

While there is no specific treatment or cure for Asperger’s, people tend to treat symptoms of disorders associated with Asperger’s Syndrome. Typically, a child with Asperger’s might suffer from anxiety or depression, or he might have issues concerning attention. He might be overly aggressive and be diagnosed with Oppositional Defiance Disorder. All of these disorders are typically treated with medication. The point of doing this is to … To read the full article go to: -

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How can I help my son’s identity crisis and lack of confidence?

Adolescence is a time of experimentation and change and many people find this to be one of the most difficult periods of time in their lives emotionally. Navigating social relationships and creating an identity take a great deal of emotional effort. This period of time can be especially challenging for a child with Asperger’s syndrome. When most adolescents are struggling with the question of who they want to be, children with Asperger’s are struggling with decoding the world as well as … To read this article go to: -

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