Hi there – This week’s article answers the question: How does a child with Aspergers see the world?
Answer: Asperger’s Syndrome is hard to understand. Some people say that children with Asperger’s Syndrome see things the wrong way. Even if your child has Asperger‘s Syndrome, it’s difficult to put your finger on exactly what it is that makes him seem so unlike other people.
The truth is children with Asperger’s Syndrome see the world much like everyone else, albeit with a few differences. This is what makes Asperger’s Syndrome so hard to comprehend. You cannot see it, but it’s there. That rigid thinking, the troubles with transition, those complicated sensory problems. In addition, let’s not forget the ever-present obsessive interests. The combination of symptoms is the distinguishing marker. Because in reality, there are people without Asperger’s that struggle with some of these issues.
“In His Shoes – A Short Journey Through Autism” by Joanna Keating-Velasco, is a book that allows the reader to spend time with a boy with Autism, following him through his day and seeing first hand what his life is like. The chance to see the world through this boy’s eyes should be given to anyone touched by Autism or Asperger’s Syndrome. You will see that, despite his challenges, the boy’s life is very much like that of other kids. You can read more about this great book at
With that said, there are differences that should be mentioned. Of course, these vary with the individual since we all have our own strengths and weaknesses. Here are a few of the possible differences.
* Different thought processes-We are flexible; children with Asperger’s are rigid, inflexible thinkers.
* Different social ability-We rely on social situations to guide us in making and keeping friends and interacting with others; children with Asperger’s cannot pick up on social cues and must be taught social skills.
* Different communication-We are able to communicate in a wide range of ability; children with Asperger’s must learn (with practice) to use non-verbal communication such as, facial expressions, gestures, and personal space.
* Different coping-We use common sense and knowledge of how people act and respond to cope with problems that arise; children with Asperger’s have trouble recognizing the signs of frustration in others and are unable to channel their own frustration.
The differences come in the way we process thoughts, feelings, and actions. Once a child with Asperger’s gets past the method of processing information, the outcome is much like the rest of us experience.
Thanks for reading,
Articles posted this week at The Parenting Aspergers Community
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