Puppets, Aspergers Syndrome and Siblings
Hi there and welcome to this week’s Aspergers blog post.
I am working now on the “Back to School” ebook covering a whole variety of questions on the topic of school and education and aim to have this complete by mid-August; when I am led to believe many schools in the USA return. I’ll keep you posted on that …
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Question
How can I explain Asperger’s to my child and her siblings?
Answer
Children with Asperger’s Syndrome are intelligent and inquisitive individuals. Their struggles are obvious to them, yet they may not be able to actually pinpoint the areas of weakness. If asked, kids with Asperger’s will tell you that they are different from their peers and siblings. The peers and siblings of children with Asperger’s also notice the differences. It can be difficult to live with and understand a child with Asperger’s. It can be tough for all involved.
You should be completely honest with your children about Asperger’s. The child who has Asperger’s needs to understand the condition in age-appropriate context. Your other children need to know about Asperger’s so that they will be able to support their sibling as much as possible.
Educate yourself on Asperger’s so you can share the details with your children. Contact your local Autism society chapter and ask for information on the condition and also about the events in your area that they sponsor. Ask about support group sessions and educational events for siblings.
Speak with the special education teachers at your children’s school about resources that can assist in explaining Asperger’s to your child and his siblings, as well as information that will help you discuss Asperger’s with your family.
You can find a lot of information on the Internet. The Autism Society and other Autism support organizations have websites chock-full of information and materials for families affected by Asperger’s. Other websites offer testimonials and products produced by individuals with Asperger’s, families affected by Asperger’s, and professionals trained to treat the challenges associated with Asperger’s.
Books and materials that will help you explain things to all of your children are available on the Internet. One such program is called “That’s What’s Different About Me! Helping Children Understand Autism Spectrum Disorders” by Heather McCracken.
This program is a puppet program that can be used to teach all children about kids with Asperger’s and what it is that makes them different. The DVD included showcases the puppet show, along with parent/teacher information and helpful tips. A program manual with instructions on implementing the program at home or at school is included. A children’s story and coloring book adapted from the puppet show rounds out the kit.
Your children will be more comfortable when they know exactly what having Asperger’s means. They will see that while there are challenges to overcome, there are also strengths associated with Asperger’s Syndrome.
Have a great day,
Dave Angel
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Articles posted this week at The Parenting Aspergers Community
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I have a question regarding Neurotherapy for Asperger’s kids. It is helpful? What is its success rate?
Upon learning that a child has Asperger’s Syndrome, most parents will begin to research treatments. There are several places you can get information about treatments. However, getting involved with other people affected by this diagnosis is the best way to find out about the different options you have for treatment and learning about what works and why. You do have to remember that kids with the Asperger’s are all …
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My daughter is 17 years old. She wants to drive but I worry that she will go into ‘Asperger’s mode’ and zone out while driving. When we talk about driving I explain to her that she needs to be paying attention at all times. Her response is “I don’t know if I can do that.” Any suggestions?
One of the first, most obvious life transitions for a teen is reaching the legal driving age. That driver’s license screams adulthood and independence. Every teen dreams of the day they can jump into a car and drive away, alone and unsupervised. Yikes! Teens with Asperger’s are no different from their peers when it comes to meeting these life transitions. With a little extra preparation, your teen can …
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My 10 year old son with Asperger’s has suddenly started sitting upside down on his chair and swinging his legs in the air during class. He also rolls around on the floor during ‘mat time’ at school. Nothing else has changed. He is in a mainstream school and his teacher is at a loss. Any ideas?
Children with Asperger’s Syndrome deal with several different issues. Some of these actually make life better, and others can cause problems in certain situations. Children with Asperger’s have normal to above-normal …
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I wanted to comment to the person whose son started standing upside down in the class. My son was eight and in the second grade and simply started standing up on the desk! I feel that in a classroom setting they feel as if they are not being payed enough attention and this is a way to make sure people know they exist…It was a rough year the school psychologist worked with me and I got an iep to assist with him having a special ed teacher while still being mainstreamed to sit with him and keep him focused. Make good use of the resources available via the school and if they dont have many set up meetings with them and the local organizations in your area that will help get the school district in your area up to par to assist you with his needs, they have monies available do what is needed to ensure they do not just get them and then not have benefits for the needs of your child available.
Comment by Lisa Gross — July 21, 2009 @ 1:51 pm
When my child wanted to know about his Aspergers we gave him a book All cats have Aspergers Syndrome. It is great book easy to read and understand. He was 10 and all our children have read it. It was an easy way to start talking about it after reading the book. It also made him less anxious. He wanted to tell his class. the school showed the class a DVD the Intricate minds and my son explained what that meant for him. He said he felt like he wasn’t lying anymore.
Comment by Karol — July 21, 2009 @ 7:36 pm
When I was trying to figure out how to explain Asperger’s to my son, I found a book called Asperger’s…What Does It Mean to Me? It’s an interactive workbook in which the children circle, highlight, check, or fill in answers, choices, etc. I thought it was a very good resource for my son. It explained (with his input) what was special about him, what autism/asperger’s is, different ways of thinking, about sensory differences, talents, and many, many other topics. It also has sections for parents/teachers with ideas, information, etc. I hope this helps!
Comment by Linda Murphy — July 21, 2009 @ 8:22 pm
We also read our grandsons All Cats Have Aspergers Syndrome. Our 7 yr. old Aspie didn’t get it, “we don’t have a cat” and walked away to play but this five yr. old brother listened intently and seemed to understand his brother better after the reading and has asked appropriate questions. Eventually I think the younger one will explain Aspergers to the Aspie. I have noticed after school the Aspie asks his little brother alot of questions about social things that have happened at school. Being an old soul the little one helps him understand his world a bit better.
Comment by Becky Mitchell — July 24, 2009 @ 3:43 am
Working with children and young adults with Aspergers can be challenging.
For anyone high school-aged children, Transition Map may offer some helpful resources. The purpose of the organization is to help young adults make the transition to adulthood.(http://www.transitionmap.org/)
Comment by Transition Map — August 1, 2009 @ 5:01 pm