The gift of Aspergers Syndrome.

Filed under:Other — posted by admin on April 8, 2008 @ 1:54 pm

Children with ASD and their families spend a great deal of time focused on the needs or limitations of the affected child, and even more energy dealing with problems that arise. However, children with ASD also have abilities that many children do not. It is important that families talk about the strengths and abilities that many children with ASD do have.

Children with ASD are often very creative. Some people consider individuals with ASD to have a sort of natural genius. They often have above average intelligence. Adults with ASD can see the world very differently to the average person. That can mean different priorities or different sensory experiences which can be exciting, but can also be exhausting, isolating and confusing.

It is important to celebrate the child for what and who they are, recognizing their individual strengths and abilities. This alone may help to build their self-esteem and help them focus on their abilities rather than their disabilities.

I Am Utterly Unique – Celebrating the Strengths of Children with Asperger Syndrome and High-Functioning Autism by Elaine Marie Larson; presents the unique characteristics and abilities of children with ASD – from A to Z.

The author provides the opportunity to celebrate the child with ASD, citing their many gifts and abilities in a positive manner. The information helps to develop as sense of self-awareness of their capabilities,and increases opportunities to talk about ASD.

Check out I Am Utterly Unique – Celebrating the Strengths of Children with Asperger Syndrome and High-Functioning Autism by Elaine Marie Larson you can even download a full 8 page sample of the book!

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I am disappointed in the book in that it appears to be too simplistic and only geared towards younger children. What is needed is a more comprehensive volume that can be used throughout childhood up past when the child becomes an adult. Not a good value for the money.

Comment by Mary Minshall — April 8, 2008 @ 2:14 pm
Way to go with the people first language. This book is wonderful for children. I am sure there are many other resources out there for older children and adults, but as far as younger children go….This is GREAT!

Comment by Bebe Bode — April 8, 2008 @ 2:33 pm
My 11 year old would love the book simply because it explains more about his condition and it shows him other people understand him and he’s not the only person like him. It would reassure him that it is ok to think and feel the way he does.

Comment by Karol Jansen — April 8, 2008 @ 10:34 pm
Hi Dave,

Finally, a positive comment about our beloved aspie child and similar children! My eight year son with aspergers is highly likeable, entertaining and simply divine company most of the time! I meet other children with aspergers and I think to myself” I think I would rather have you than your typical siblings!” Other people has said the same of my son, and his typical brother feels he cannot keep up. The reality is that whilst children with aspergers can be trouble, that they are also unique, intelligent, fascinating and is it my imagination, or are they always adorable as well?? The ones I have met certainly are…..

Thanks Dave….more positive stuff please!

Kathleen Alleaume-Ross
Footscray, Australia

Comment by Kathleen A-Ross — April 9, 2008 @ 12:26 am
I have not had chance to read the book yet but agree with Kathleen about the temperament of children I know with ASD. My seven year old grandson is very sensitive, artistic and loving to the people he feels safe with.
I also believe that many more people have a form of ASD than statistics may indicate.

Comment by Anji, — April 9, 2008 @ 9:01 am
Hi Dave,
Its great to see something positive !! This is come in really handy explaining to my 7 y/old’s friend why my son is different and to his fellow class mates. Some students are even taking on a pier role with my son. Its been fantastic to see how my son can understand how and why he is different and special. Thanks !!

Helen Trowbridge – Adelaide, Sth Australia

Comment by Helen — April 9, 2008 @ 9:15 am
I certainly wouldn’t trade my very unique 12 year old son for anything. I am privileged to be his Dad. He makes me laugh, he makes me cry – he is MINE – and I love him.

He won his school geography bee, and did well in the state bee last year – not bad for a 6th grader!! I have no doubt he’ll do even better this year.

Comment by Patrick — August 29, 2009 @ 7:48 pm
I am so grateful and blessed with my children with ASD I have two young adults and two grammer aged. They are a blessing not a burden from Almight God above. I thank Him daily for their special love and special gifts. They are loved by every person that they touch and see. I been always told they don’t seem like ASD kids to me. I smile and say well I don’t treat them like they have ASD either. They are loved uniquely and differently by their gifts cause each one have different uniquenesses..but they are loving, sensitive and never mean to each other. I wouldn’t trade them for the average kiddos of this time. The average kids are mean and cruel cause they are scared, unsure and don’t know how to react sad for them. They miss out on wanting to know more about these unique children of the ASD realm. I am again blessed and loved by my ASD and hope one day we will see that we are the ones that are nuts..Take CAre God bless to all of you and yours.

Comment by melody — October 26, 2009 @ 8:19 am